@JDW I know, I was really shocked when it happened...
punished for being helpful? For doing what a forum is supposed to do?
Oh, yes. Here's my story, Scott...
Back in July 2012, some folks were having problems getting registered on the MLA, so I sent a PM to a certain moderator (at the time) who I won’t name because he’s well known there, still high up in the ranks, and started there probably about when I did (2005ish?). I still can access those PMs to this day, so I know what I said and what he said, exactly…
XXX,
I am writing you today because I received an email from someone who registered in this forum over a week ago but who has still not been approved. His name and email address are as follows: YYY
Please also know this has happened a few times in the past. People register to become members of our forum, but after a week of waiting they still are not registered, and then they find me on the web because I have so many photos posted on Flickr, and they ask me many questions about vintage Macs, and I then suggest they register on the 68kMKA forum, and they tell me they've already registered but still haven't been approved!
So it would be greatly appreciated if you could kindly consult with the powers that be to do something to accelerate the process of form registration approvals.
Thank you!
I then received the following reply:
This is not my problem, nor my responsibility, nor is it within my power to do anything about it. Nor is it yours. And I don't appreciate you harassing me about it.
Being totally and utterly shocked, especially because I'd never had any bad interactions with him until then, I replied back as follows:
"Harassing" you? XXX, I was just trying to help someone who was in need. My only alternative would have been to ignore them. But what would such say about me? I contacted you only because I know you to be a good moderator in this forum and I have respect for you.
I was totally unaware you have no say in new registrations. I deeply apologize for having troubled you. I am now speaking with Cory about this matter. I will not bother you again.
The reply was this:
No, you could have told them what I told you - that it's nothing to do with you and they can follow the damn instructions like everyone else.
(and in regards to my having said I would ask Cory about it he responds…)
GOD WHY. Seriously, just stop.
Other than the major data loss due to the disk crash under Tom Levens, that particular PM interaction was really the start of my bewilderment in that forum. And in the years after that strange episode, there were other people there who said really harsh things that came out of the blue and I found totally impossible to explain. It’s almost like demon possession. You just can’t explain it. You just have to steer clear of those people the best you can, which can be hard if they hold positions of power.
In comparison, my time here at TinkerDifferent has been truly blessed. We have a lot of fine folks here, both those who run the forum and those who participate it in. It’s a night-and-day difference for me. I'm sure it will be for you too, Scott.