Is it necessary to replace the entire backplane for the sake of one missing pin in one connector? If there is someone near you with good equipment for soldering and desoldering, then the NeXTbus connector is a standard
DIN 41612 connector so far as I know, and replacements should be easy to source from a major electronic component retailer like Digi-Key or Mouser. There are a lot of pins on the connector (96 of them!), but for a reasonably-skilled and well-equipped hobbyist, extracting the old connector and soldering in a replacement is probably a half-hour job.