I don't have an elegant way yet.... I was thinking of jumping on the software side of things with the previously proposed use of an INIT to create a sleep hook to poke $FC0200 on wake. My understanding is just with wake from sleep this occurs? and is related to the logic board side...
My goals...
Just put up my next repo for v 2 card; not made yet but might want to look at it for next generation and 4-8MB options.
https://github.com/2tf2294x4g-maker/MacintoshPortable8MB_RAM
Finally made my own 4MB card, next is the 4 or 8 MB card design that I'm working on. Fun project. I updated the project and cleaned it up a bit for a git depository. It worked for me on first assembly and was easy to program the CPLD with Tigard...
Maybe start with the cheaper one (micro USB-B) ; we all have adapters. Perhaps keep USB-C for version two if you want... I think the soldering work is overall about the same; more pins on the USB-C