And it‘s clear this is a n/c pad since there is no trace to it.
Btw you seldom repair such a board by replacing chips. Broken fuses, traces, solder joints or leaking capacitors are much more common. Let‘s hope you didn‘t do more damage to it.
This pad (pin 5) is deliberately not connected, so there should be no difference. The part at L1 is an inductor (coiled wire) and most certainly not in need of replacment.
siliconinsider usually does a great job. I have 4x4MB SIMMs from him in my SE/30 which work great! The SE/30 however is very picky about RAM. Did you install them correctly? What are the symptoms?